She's Horny and ready to have sex!

I'm not sure what to make of “Natalie Dylan,” the San Diego-raised woman who's auctioning off her virginity and so far has gotten a high bid of $3.8 million.

Is she a fledging tart?

Or very, very smart?

Natalie Dylan isn't her real name. She's concealing her identity as she goes about this quest, which, she says, is to raise money for her education.

She's 22.

And – she swears – a virgin.

There are only two potential truths here: Either she's that rare young person who's managed to resist the pressures in today's society to engage in premarital sex.

Or she's lying.

Well, she says it's true, and she's even taken a polygraph test. She's also willing to undergo a medical exam.

I got hold of her through the Moonlite Bunny Ranch near Carson City, Nev., where she plans to lose her virginity because prostitution is legal there. The brothel is running the auction, which Dylan kicked off by going on Howard Stern's satellite radio show last September.

Her sister worked at the Bunny Ranch for a while, too. Dylan says that's how she got the idea to use the place for the auction. (One sister is a hooker; the other a virgin. But by selling sex they have found common ground. How touching.)

Dylan claims to have grown up in the “La Jolla area,” which can't be verified, of course. She wouldn't say what high school she attended.

Her story – with its blend of sex, commerce and concealed identity – is generating a media and Internet frenzy. CNN, U.S. newspapers and England's The Guardian, which called it “a sad story, through and through,” have done reports. Countless blogs have picked it up.

The weird thing is that Dylan's photograph is easily accessible on the Internet, but apparently no one has come forward to say, “Hey, I know that girl.”

And I have to wonder: Is she selling more than just her virginity? With all the media play her story's gotten, are we the ones being played?

On the phone, Dylan sounded earnest, intelligent, funny ... and practical.
“I see it as a business transaction,” Dylan said.

She has an undergraduate degree in women's studies from Sacramento State University and is hoping to earn her master's degree in marriage and family therapy.

Dylan said she started studying virginity and how it's perceived by different cultures as part of a future thesis project. In the old days, a virgin could fetch a larger dowry. But the goods went to the father, who, in essence, was pimping his daughter, she says. So if her virginity has value, why shouldn't she be the one to benefit?

Her argument, if she's on the level, can be compelling. She's not going to make a career of selling her body, she says. It's a one-time deal.

A women's studies professor at Sacramento State, which confirms Dylan was a student there, sounded kind of wishy-washy about the whole thing.

“As faculty, we neither condemn nor condone Natalie Dylan's decision,” Sujatha Moni said through an e-mail. “She is merely trying to cash in on society's sexist attitudes. While she may feel a personal sense of accomplishment, I cannot interpret her act as either emancipatory or progressive.”

My take: She's giving her a C.

In addition to the offer of $3.8 million, Dylan says she has received more than 15 bids of $1 million or more. The highest bidder doesn't necessarily win her; she chooses the one.

But who knows how many offers are legit?

Some men have proposed marriage in lieu of money, Dylan says. A few men have claimed to be virgins and offered her a “fair trade.” Some women have been harsh, but some have been supportive, telling her she's being shrewd.

Dylan told me she didn't mean to stay a virgin this long. She was taught growing up that it's important to save oneself for that someone special or for marriage, but remaining a virgin was never any sort of high-minded goal.

She's had boyfriends, but the relationships simply never went that far.

So here she is at 22, a virgin.

Her mother, who no longer lives in the area, has been understanding. This is not something she would do, but she's not being critical, her daughter said.

Dylan is not certain when she's going to do the deed for dollars. Right now, opportunities are still presenting themselves. A book and movie deal could be in the works.

Natalie Dylan | What is her virginity worth today?

Is a woman's virginity worth $3.8 million? That's how much a 22-year-old from San Diego, California, said she has been offered through an auction she announced in September.

The woman, who goes by "Natalie Dylan," set up a private auction through the Moonlite Bunny Ranch, a legal brothel in Nevada. The auction has given her lots of "business opportunities", she said.

Her top bid comes from a 39-year-old Australian, but she has no immediate plans to settle the auction, she said in a recent interview with CNN.

Some men may seek virgins because they want them as trophies, or desire purity. But as to why men would bid so much money on virginity, she said she has no answer.

"I honestly don't know what they see in it," she said.

The idea that virginity has a high value harkens back to the days of early humans -- if a man has sex with a virgin woman, he knows for sure that her children will be his, anthropologists reason. In early civilizations, women were also considered the property of men, said Laura Carpenter, assistant professor of sociology at Vanderbilt University in Tennessee.

Through the 1950s in America, women were expected to remain virgins until marriage, Carpenter said. But with the availability of the pill and the IUD in the 1960s, combined with youth counterculture and gay rights movements, it became more common for women to engage in premarital sex, she said.

Attitudes shifted toward the conservative side in the 1980s with the worldwide HIV/AIDS pandemic, which made the stakes much higher for choosing a sex partner, especially for men. Abstinence-based education programs also took off around that time, with government support, she said.

Today, about 95 percent of Americans have sex before they're 25, Carpenter said. But worldwide, virgin prostitutes can claim larger fees, certain cultures still attach larger dowries to virgin brides, and some women undergo reconstructive surgery to restore their hymens.

In looking at Dylan's auction, "To some extent it's not new. The new part is the Internet," Carpenter said.

Dylan is not the first to hold a public sale for her sexual innocence. An Italian model reportedly had plans to sell her virginity for more than $1 million in September. Dylan said she was inspired by a report of a Peruvian woman who put her virginity up for sale.

Some think Dylan's auction may be indicative of a shift in the way society treats sexuality.

"In a world that is teeming with brand messages, with sponsorships everywhere, intimacy is really just the next thing to go," said Jon Ray, a 24-year-old marketing consultant in Austin, Texas, and author of the blog Who is Jon Ray?

Brett Austin Vanderzee, a 19-year-old student at Oklahoma Christian University who has pledged to stay a virgin until marriage, finds Dylan's actions somewhat appalling, but not shocking.

"It's kind of crazy, but I think it's the general direction that society has been heading in for a while," he said. "We're becoming more accepting of things that normally would have been considered unwise."

Kiara Daines, a 17-year-old from Detroit, Michigan, said she's saving herself until marriage for personal and religious reasons. Both Vanderzee and Daines said they have endured teasing from their peers because of their choice to remain abstinent.

Others say there's just too much hype around virginity. Martha Kempner, vice president for information and communications for the nonprofit Sexuality Information and Education Council of the U.S., said telling a young woman to stay "pure" misses the point that sexuality will influence her long after she loses her virginity.

"By putting the emphasis there, [on virginity], we're actually devaluing the rest of women, the rest of her, and the rest of her sexuality for the rest of her life," she said.

A recent study in the journal Pediatrics showed that religious teens who take virginity pledges are as likely to have sex before marriage as their religious peers, and less likely to use condoms or birth control when they become sexually active.

Many people say losing one's virginity has different implications for men than women. While young women see the act as a symbolic giving of themselves, young men are more prone to want to get it over with and brag about it. Similarly, says Kempner, women are taught to keep themselves "pure" and help men exercise control, while there's a "boys will be boys" attitude around men.

Do men really think that virginity is worth millions of dollars?

Audacia Ray, a 28-year-old former sex worker from New York and author of "Naked on the Internet: Hookups, Downloads and Cashing In on Internet Sexploration," is skeptical. She views Dylan's auction as a publicity stunt and doesn't anticipate she'll "continue in the industry."

The importance of a woman's virginity may vary in different cultures, but generally there's not the high value there used to be, Ray said.

"It begins to be viewed more as a burden over time -- a burden in that losing virginity is an event, so that it has to somehow mean something, which is part of the reason why people are all up in arms about Natalie," she said.

How do Dylan's friends and family feel? Dylan, who said she was raised in a conservative, non-Christian religious household, said although her mother doesn't agree with her, she still loves her as a daughter. Generally people have been supportive, Dylan said.

"I've talked with my exes, some different guys, and they understand it's just a business deal, and they know me, and they know I'm not this promiscuous girl. Honestly, even if I didn't do this, I'd always be the girl who thinks prostitution is OK," she said. "I would always want to find a partner that can accept me for me."

If you think Dylan's auction amounts to prostitution, she completely agrees. She also said she's not breaking any laws -- after all, prostitution in Nevada is legal.

"I feel people should be pro-choice with their body, and I'm not hurting anyone," she said. "It really comes down to a moral and religious argument, and this doesn't go against my religion or my morals. There's no right or wrong to this."